By Robin J Psychic.
The traditional definition of healer is a person or thing that heals and it is usually in reference
to the physical body. Yet there are those who heal emotional wounds with their words and those who heal spiritual wounds with
their actions the list is endless. Everyone in some form is a healer whether they recognize it or not. When your child comes
to you in tears because someone says they are imperfect in some way and you embrace their pain and teach them to find the
greatness within you are a healer. When someone comes to you in grief and you show empathy and listen you are a healer. When
you touch a friend on a shoulder in support or give a homeless person one minute of your time you are a healer.
Spirit guides have often given me insight into the gifts of a healer and I will share them as we go along starting with this
The lesson of the healer
Walk without judgment
Hear only the voice of others
Touch with unconditional
See through the eyes of a Higher Power
I think that is healing 101 as they remind me often
if you cannot walk in another’s shoes and feel their world then you are still walking in the illusion of your own reality.
Being with someone and allowing them to be themselves to share their story and to feel safe doing so this is a wonderful
healing gift to give. How many times have you only needed someone to listen unconditionally to be with you in your pain? Some
people only need to tell their story they do not need you to fix everything for them they do not need you to tell them where
they went wrong they do not need you to be their moral compass they simply need somebody to listen. The first gift of a healer
is the ability to hear only the voice of others.
Walk without judgment. You will only increase the size of the wound
spiritual emotional physical if you take the position of judge and jury. When you feel down and out having someone come in
and parent you is the worst thing ever. If you come to someone brandishing should have’s and waving around statements
of guilt and shame you are infecting the wound not healing it. Judgment narrows your vision objectivity increases it so that
you can step outside of the box and see the bigger picture.
Unconditional by definition means complete and absolute,
and not dependent on certain terms or conditions. So when you come to someone in unconditional love it means you give your
love with no strings attached.
Unconditional love respects boundaries
Unconditional love is not attached to emotions
Unconditional love respects the receiver
Unconditional love is love of self pure white love
To love unconditionally
is to love without judgment or restrictions
Who cannot see the wounds of others if you are blinded
by judgments or you feel the pain of others if all you want to hear is the sound of your own voice. Letting go allows you
to be in the moment without attachment. Knowing that I am loved unconditionally even in my worst moments gives me the courage
to speak freely it gives me the strength to put a voice to my pain and it allows me to let go knowing I am safe with you.